Dear Parenthèse, I'm a mum of three. Weekends used to feel like a break; now they just feel like a different shift. When will my life feel like mine again? Eye-level view of a serene park with a single bench under a tree Dear Anonymous, Let's start with the advice you're probably expecting me to give you - Take care of yourself. I'm not going to tell you that. Not yet. Self-care has its place. Take the long bath. Escape to the spa for an afternoon. You may feel better. But n